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Random wrap-up

If you visit Finding Ninee on a regular basis, you know that I don’t usually do wrap-ups.  While it’s true that many of the cool kids do them weekly, for some reason, they historically have left a bad taste in my mouth.  I had to wonder why and explore this.  Maybe the bad taste is due to feeling like everybody who visits already knows about all the stuff I wrote, drew, Pinned and Tweeted recently.  But you guys are super busy.  Maybe, in fact, you’d appreciate a wrap-up.  I realized that I have no reason not to love wrap-ups and really, my prejudice against them is unfair.  And I’m nothing if not fair.

My desire for fairness started early.  Probably because my mom so obviously liked my brother more than me.

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Anyway, I still can’t go for the weekly wrap-up because that implies that I might actually commit to doing it, like, weekly.  However, I can throw down with the cool dudes and provide you with my own lazy, haphazard version of a wrap-up right now.  In fact, who makes the rules here but me?  So here you go.  This is a random wrap-up that may include stuff from this week, or not.  Fun right?  No?  Ok, then come back later this week and I’ll tell you about how Snowquester made me an Oscar-worthy actress.

Still here?  Huh.  Ok.  I unsuccessfully tried to start a campaign to make the whole “Spring Forward” daylight savings time thing happen at 11:00am on a Monday rather than in the middle of the night on my weekend.  So far, it hasn’t made much progress.  It’s still 6:20pm instead of 5:20pm.  Maybe if I start earlier, next year.

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Let’s see.  What else?  Oh!  I wrote about what it feels like to be a special needs mom and got more comments than I ever have before.  There weren’t any stupid drawings (note to self?).

Although I do not use the word “retard,” I have been known to use the word “f*cktard” and didn’t even think about the link.  Slow, I know.  I’m trying to evolve. In case you’re wondering, no, I was not bright enough to come up with this on my own. Ellen from Love that Max wrote a Babble piece and featured a quote and a photo of Tucker and I in it. I felt sort of important for a minute.

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Did you guys know that my appliances hate me?  No?  See proof here. I used to be much pinker. Weird, right?

I don’t want to end without something mushy.  Plus, Tucker and I spent some super-awesome time outdoors today living in the moment and we all can use a reminder about simply absorbing the perfection our kids are, no matter what.  So I’ll leave you with a link to Liminal Moments.

PS – It has been brought to my attention that you guys don’t realize that I hover between number two and five in ranking in the category “Special Needs Blogs” on Top Mommy Blogs and that you, my friends, can actually click that pretty brown button on my home page every single day.  So I thought it might be worth a mention here.  In fact here you go – you can click right now!  You don’t even need to do anything else.  Just click.  Easy! Breezy! And it’s time to eat some cheesy!

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Happy Sunday, pals.


  • Emily - Clicked, voted, and loved your wrap-up…I too have wondered if people like wrap-ups. I, of course, am too lazy to do one. 🙂March 10, 2013 – 7:18 pmReplyCancel

    • admin - Aw, thanks, Emily! I’m usually too lazy, too. Which is mostly why I never do one. Plus, you guys read every post anyway, right? Errr, right?? 😉March 10, 2013 – 7:52 pmReplyCancel

      • admin - Oh and thanks for the vote!March 10, 2013 – 7:52 pmReplyCancel

  • @facethesun - Your idea to move the spring forward time to 11 am on Monday is awesome. I’d vote for it!March 10, 2013 – 8:10 pmReplyCancel

    • admin - Ok, so I guess we should get ourselves together for next year, right? Because this 2AM or whatever is BS. You take away an hour of my sleep? Take away an hour of work. For all of us. It’s simply the right thing to do…March 10, 2013 – 10:53 pmReplyCancel

  • Janine Huldie - I also voted and am in love with your wrap-up (pictures and all!!). I hope you do these more often now!! 🙂March 10, 2013 – 8:25 pmReplyCancel

    • admin - Aw, Janine, you have to be the best commenter ever. How do you find the time? And thank you HUGE for the vote! Not sure about the wrap-up…I still feel funny about it….March 10, 2013 – 10:54 pmReplyCancel

  • Kenya G. Johnson - Yeah I don’t want the wrap up commitment. I’ve done a few post that I called Breadcrumbs to a category of different post. It’s a good thing though for people who don’t subscribe to you. But I’m a subscriber now. HOWEVER, this hasn’t come in my e-mail yet. What’s up with that? I saw this on Google. Thanks for reminding me about DST. I was wondering why I was so sleepy.March 10, 2013 – 8:43 pmReplyCancel

    • admin - Kenya,
      You are wise. Oh and have I ever said how much I love your name? Seriously cool. If I’d have had a daughter, I’d planned on naming her Chloe but Kenya? Trumps. Huge.
      I think I screwed up the subscriber thing. Ugh. I suck at the actual stuff.March 10, 2013 – 10:55 pmReplyCancel

  • Jen - You called me pal. She likes me, she really likes me!!!! And you are my top mommy blog chica, I will vote for you forever. Also too (as my sister-in-law from Minnesnowta likes to say) I liked your re-cap. You have my permission to carry on. Even if I did read all your posts already because I stalk you, the reminders gave me a little inner chuckle too.March 10, 2013 – 9:21 pmReplyCancel

    • admin - I like like like you…LOVES.
      Thanks mucho for the vote. Guess I’m supposed to do this all the time but I think it’s annoying when people do. So I don’t. Bah.
      You get HUGE GD points if you’d actually read the appliances story before. Did you??March 10, 2013 – 10:57 pmReplyCancel

  • Josie Bisett - My kind of wrap-up!! I too am not a fan of the weekly wrap-up, but shhhhh don’t tell anyone I said that;)March 10, 2013 – 9:46 pmReplyCancel

    • admin - Shhhh. Your secret is safe with me. And WTF that you’re still holding out on this no bloggie thing??? Power to YOU.March 10, 2013 – 10:57 pmReplyCancel

  • Stephanie @ Mommy, for real. - When I did my first wrap-up a few weeks ago, I felt kind of dumb. Like it is some kind of self-absorbed bullshit post, but I actually think it’s kind of helpful. Plus, you can put a few funny things people probably missed into the post- pretty handy! I loved your wrap up, and even though I may or may not do one every weekend, I think they’re pretty cool. So are you. Duh.March 10, 2013 – 10:41 pmReplyCancel

    • admin - They feel weird, right? Like “oh my gentle followers, if you missed some of my very precious words, here they are!” Blah. But, you know, I have to keep up with you cool kids. Plus, my snow post wasn’t ready and this one was easier. Word up. Dude.March 10, 2013 – 10:59 pmReplyCancel

  • Rachel - LOVE your part of the babble piece! That’s awesome. I read Kerri’s piece over at Undiagnosed and I commented similar to this there: Mental retardation is STILL a classification for students on IEP’s, and many teachers wish it weren’t because of it’s derogatory connotation. Whenever I was at a meeting, and we needed to discuss a classification we would NEVER say, “oh, so and so is retarded”, or even “He/she is mentally retarded”. We would say “he/she has MR”. It may seem like a slight distinction, but it was important for us. Labels can be helpful when trying to figure out how to work with a child. But they do NOT define a child. Every child is so much more!!March 10, 2013 – 11:38 pmReplyCancel

    • admin - Aw, Rachel.
      It is crazy that it’s still a classification. What’s crazier (maybe) is that I still wonder if that will be Tucker’s diagnosis. He still doesn’t have one.
      And you’re very wise that labels do NOT define a child. Ever. <3
      Tucker is my favorite person in the world. No matter what.March 10, 2013 – 11:59 pmReplyCancel

  • Courtney - Hi! This is a lovely way to wrap up. It’s short and simple with nice links. I love your quote from Babble and glad you could be a part of end the word.March 10, 2013 – 11:45 pmReplyCancel

    • admin - Courtney!
      Thank you <3
      I hope I am a part of being the end of the word. And not the world. Because, you know...March 11, 2013 – 12:00 amReplyCancel

  • Kerri - First, you know my feelings on the “R” Word 🙂 and total congrats to you on the Ellen nod (kind of like getting an Oscar, uh?).

    Oh, and your idea on moving to 11 am on a Monday? I came into work this morning and put the clock forward. My coworker came in and moved the clock forward. Then another person came in. We all thought it was noon and were freaking disappointed to realize it was still only 9am.March 11, 2013 – 9:37 amReplyCancel

    • admin - Kerri!
      Probably a lot of folks don’t realize how awesome it is that I got the Ellen nod. She’s like famous and stuff. And she commented on my blog. Me. Crazy giddy, I tell ya.
      That’s really funny that three of you moved the clock forward at work. I’d have left it and played dumb. 😀March 11, 2013 – 10:10 amReplyCancel

  • Mama Meerkat - DST makes me sad. I just wish we could keep the time where it is.

    I like this style of blog wrap up! Rock on.March 11, 2013 – 4:56 pmReplyCancel

  • Kim Pugliano @the G is silent - I’m totally going to start incorporating fucktard without the ** into my everyday conversation. I’ll let you know how that works.March 12, 2013 – 5:02 pmReplyCancel

    • admin - Dude, trust me. I incorporate every version of fuck**** into every conversation, every day. Except the ones I have with Tucker. I love saying fuckwad, fucktwit, fuckshit, shitfuck, fuckbrains, assfuck, etc etc etc. So more power to you. But maybe leave the “tard” part out. Because people are offended by that shit. For real.March 12, 2013 – 10:02 pmReplyCancel

  • Deb (Urban Moo Cow) - I agree with you. Weekly wrap-ups are kinda meta and self-involved. But, hey, the cool kids are cool for a reason, which is probably why my blog is so lonely. 😉

    Perhaps I will follow your lead and do some kind of wrap-up. No, I probably won’t. I’m nothing if not honest. 😀

    Thanks for reading my Messy post. I feel like the photo didn’t really capture the disaster-area splendor of my desk.March 15, 2013 – 10:21 pmReplyCancel

    • admin - Right? The wrap ups are self involved so yeah, weird. I mean I guess I don’t get it because I’d never call any of the cool kids self involved because they’re way smarter than I am. I – personally – just feel self involved doing one. (er yeah thanks for clarifying Kristi) and
      You’re totally welcome for reading the Messy post! I will be BACK 🙂March 15, 2013 – 10:51 pmReplyCancel

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